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<table cellpadding="3" cellspacing="0" width="100%" class="forumline"> <thead> <caption><table border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" width="100%" class="forumheader"> <tr> <td align="left" valign="bottom" width="25"><img src="http://picsrv.fora.pl/AcidTechTiger/images/hdr_left.gif" width="25" height="27" alt="" /></td> <td align="center" class="forumheader-mid">Topic review</td> <td align="right" valign="bottom" width="25"><img src="http://picsrv.fora.pl/AcidTechTiger/images/hdr_right.gif" width="25" height="27" alt="" /></td> </tr></table></caption> </thead> <tbody> <tr> <th class="thCornerL" width="22%" height="26">Author</th> <th class="thCornerR">Message</th> </tr> <tr> <td width="22%" align="left" valign="top" class="row1"><span class="name"><a name=""></a><b>325sufdhu</b></span></td> <td class="row1" height="28" valign="top"><table width="100%" border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0"> <tr> <td width="100%"><img src="http://picsrv.fora.pl/AcidTechTiger/images/post_old.gif" width="12" height="9" alt="Post" title="Post" border="0" /><span class="postdetails">Posted: Sat 4:29, 02 Apr 2011<span class="gen"> </span> Post subject: Jordan 11s Is it Time to Move in Together</span></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><hr /></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><span class="postbody">This seems silly to me, but I am always in favor of a second opinion. <br />First of all, you mentioned that year and a half seems like a long My question is: for what? Do you think that you need to move in together or be married simply because of the passage of time? That's very short-sighted in my humble. Living together, dating, marriage,<a href="http://www.two-jordans.com" target="_blank">Jordan 11s</a>, etc., are not "relationships". They are FORMATS of relationships! Do you understand the difference? It's a critical distinction. The format has nothing whatsoever to do with the quality other than the more "tight" the format the greater the conflicts in a less-than-perfect relationship; and let's face it - there is no perfect relationship! I would strongly urge you to forget the timeframes and focus on the quality instead. Make decisions for your relationship based on what you want to grow or change - not because a certain amount of time has passed. <br />You two really are opposites. That can be a very good thing - or a very bad thing depending on how you handle it. If he's logic and you're emotion, that's going to make for some very challenging times indeed! It's far better to have a balance between them as you both not only need to get your own needs met, but you also need to be able to understand (and sometimes adopt) the other's point of view. Being on such opposite sides of the fence may create great tension between you. I first suggest that you both work on this as a goal in your relationship; to gain a better handle on the other's methods to understanding and dealing with both joys and problems within the relationship. <br />We alternate between homes, mine on the weekdays and his on the weekends. We do not sleep well together! Rare is a morning when we both wake up feeling refreshed. My thinking is well lets just figure it out NOW,<a href="http://www.two-jordans.com/air-jordan-11-44" target="_blank">Jordan Retro 11</a>, we are either going to make it or we should move on. <br />What I am driving at is insecurity. I want to move in to get to that level of understanding and comprehension of what the other person is about. Our issue is that I am an emotional female and he is an overly logical male. <br />My boyfriend of 1 ? years and I are considering moving in together. Well, I suggested it and now it is on the table. You hit the nail on the head with your articles and I do want our relationship to progress (bad reason to move in together after reading these articles) but I also want to know if we are wasting our time. A year and a half seems like a long time. <br />With regards to moving in together, let's consider a few points: <br />A second opinion seems silly to you??? Actually, I *am* an advice columnist,<a href="http://www.two-jordans.com/air-jordan-v.2-grown-128" target="_blank">Jordan V.2 Grown Shoes</a>, so it doesn't seem odd to me at all. Here's what's going on: <br />You mentioned that you and he don't wake up refreshed from sleeping together. Can you learn to, or are you going to start sleeping in different beds? This is another critical question to answer as if you wind up in different beds, or even different rooms you're going to quickly question your reasoning for being together in the first place. Do you (or he) really need just a roommate? Just because 1.5 years have past, do you really think that if you don't move in together you're not "going anywhere" with the relationship? Again, that's short-sighted. <br />Things like moving in together and even getting married isn't going to solve your insecurity problems. This is internal - not external. It's j <br />Furthermore, he is a difficult fellow. He is military born and bred and his emotions consist entirely of logic. He looks at our relationship in a completely logical fashion to the point where he weighs the pros and cons and must have decided the pros outweigh the cons. <br />Hello! <br />Dear Dr. Neder: <br />I am sorry if it seems like I am writing an advice columnist, but it seems like you have a handle on when to, and when not to make these relationship changes.</span></td> </tr> </table></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2" class="spaceRow"><img src="http://picsrv.fora.pl/AcidTechTiger/images/spacer.gif" alt="" width="1" height="1" /></td> </tr> </tbody> </table>
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