曾经看过这样一则故事,让我一直记忆深刻.
一个即将出嫁的女孩,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych],向她的母亲提了一个问题:
“妈妈,婚后我该怎样把握爱情呢?”
“傻孩子,爱情怎么能把握呢?”母亲诧异道。
“那爱情为什么不能把握呢?”女孩疑惑地追问。
母亲听了女孩的问话,温情地笑了笑,然后慢慢地蹲下,从地上捧起一捧沙子,送到女儿的面前。
女孩发现那捧沙子在母亲的手里,圆圆满满的,没有一点流失,没有一点撒落,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]。
接着母亲用力将双手握紧,沙子立刻从母亲的指缝间泻落下来。待母亲再把手张开时,原来那捧沙子已所剩无几,其圆圆满满的形状也早已被压得扁扁的,毫无美感可言。
女孩望着母亲手中的沙子,领悟地点点头。
其实,那位母亲是要告诉她的女儿:爱情无需刻意去把握,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych],越是想抓牢自己的爱情,反而越容易失去自我,失去原则,失去彼此之间应该保持的宽容和谅解,爱情也会因此而变成毫无美感的形式。
每个人都希望自己永远拥有幸福美满的爱情,那么不妨学着用捧一捧沙的情怀来对待爱情,好好珍惜,好好捧握。
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