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re are a variety of conducts on how to go on with rejecting a person that you don't feel a connection with. But before you go on rejecting someone in online millionaire dating, you must ask yourself two questions: First, don't you really want to get that person better? And second, what are the grounds on why you want to reject him? If you have a sound answer (an answer which sounds plausible to yourself and to a friend that you can consult with), then you can go on kindly, yet firmly, rejecting that person online.
You've felt the connection during the exchange of e-mails, but you just can't feel that the prospect is a possible match through your Instant Messages. What do you do? Here are a few tips on what to do and what not to do when rejecting someone through Instant Messenger:
What to do:
The best thing to do is to send a message that goes, "I'm sorry. I enjoyed chatting with you. But I have to stop because I just don't think that we can be a match. I don't want to waste any more of your time. Wishing you lots of success on your search!" That's it. The message is clear, short,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and polite, which is what you must aim for always. If the other person replies to insist that No, you are wrong! We are a match? Simply do not reply and do not send any more messages.
What not to do:
1. Saying, "GTG!" then logging off. For those of you who aren't familiar with IM-speak, GTG stands for "Got To Go." I particularly don't like this because once both of you have a current conversation, it is kind of rude if you just went and pull of a stunt like this. I mean, you wouldn't like it either if you were talking to someone on the phone and the other person says, "Gotta run!" then slams the phone down on you now without giving you the chance to say good-bye, would you?
2. Breaking the current running conversation and logging off. This is called "poofing" in the internet world and it is just as bad the first one. Besides, if you do this,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you don't provide closure, and the other person would just continue to contact you, so it's best that you just spell it out, kindly yet firmly, that you don't want to continue contacting each other anymore.
3. Replying with obscenities or anger. It's nobody's fault that you both just don't click! It's just that maybe the two of you are missing the spark that makes up a connection. Anger and obscenities should never be a response. Do not leave mad or the other person would do so too.
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